Space Between

As we all know, in order to continue nourishing a relationship, you have to shower it with what it needs everyday.   Try to avoid things that you believe might harm it.   Isolate yourselves to the deadly sins that might ruin the beautiful emotion your fate has ran into.   You continue doing all those things. Yet, you forget that sometimes routine strikes immunity in a non-beneficial manner. I may draw a little confusion here.   When those are what you need, why would it not be beneficial? Here goes--Usually, people forget that routine is a cyclical manner of doing things over and over again. People feel safe of the everyday-doing that they become complacent that such would be enough. Yet, what they dont know is that, such routine made beautiful things seemingly ordinary. Fireworks suddenly have stopped making a beautiful scenario and rather became a usual picturesque of the day. Hence, there seemed to have been an unreal...

According to Cosmopolitan magazine, Cheating is defined as—“anything that you don’t want your partner to know about”. Then, if this holds true, a lot of us are committing this deadly sin.   I for one agree.   What is there to hide? What is there to not know about? I know a lot of people would defend themselves for reasons of avoiding incrimination or a potential fight and thus, euphemizing it as “saving the relationship”. But isn’t exposure to true happenings the best dose of the reality of life? Isn’t it a stronger relationship when everything is held as its foundation?  I really don’t understand why there is a need to conceal things.   As they say, its even harder to remember your fabricated stories than the real ones. So, why lie? More to that, w hen you do things that you think will ruin the relationship, why do it? When you have done things that made you look stupid, why continue being stupid by hiding and laughing at yourself by yourself? And if you ...

Dear Friend, I know it happened to you again. And I strongly agree that you do not deserve it.   Neither because you were good nor you were faithful, but, because nobody deserves to be treated that way-- Especially in your case. I know you are in pain now.   And I don’t have the best words for someone with deeper pain than I have had.   I guess nobody can help you heal another wound of yours.   I don’t wish to feel it though. I don’t expect you to ask it from people. I just hope time will tick faster that when you wake up one day, healing is finally born. We love you. Love, Me. *** It’s funny how a sparkling night suddenly turns into a moment wherein everything turns dark. But then again, it's always wiser to get a feel of both.

Last night, I had the chance to watch the movie “ No Other Woman” which stars Anne Curtis, Derek Ramsay and Cristine Reyes. Well, for all those who haven’t heard of it, the story is pretty simple.   Perfect family, husband and wife (Ramsay- Reyes). Husband sees a gorgeous, flirty and “challenging” woman.   Husband does the killer first kiss. Husband cheats. Husband falls in love. Wife catches the affair. Wife attacks . Gorgeous woman retaliates. Then, the famous lines. End of story. This story is rich of killer lines. Outfits were gooorgeous. Lots of "ouchy" scenes. I may say, it is now on my top Tagalog favorite movies. Well, I guess I’m biased of Anne Curtis, being my favorite. Plus, her portrayal of a uber perfect role.   Love it! I admit, I cried. And I still enjoy the hangover of it. I got touched by both the characters of Curtis and Reyes.   I guess, I simply just understand them both. Not that I played both roles in my previous life, but, may be tha...